Loneliness

I've been following the blog of a very wise man who has been the light of my life so far spiritually, and he's highlighted something that we may all want to consider:

Loneliness doesn’t come from being alone. Lonliness comes from knowing you’ve wasted your life on self indulgence and you haven’t done much for others or done much at all. So in that case you can go out for dinner and parties every night, but once you get home, lonliness will haunt you till you become bitter.

That's scary. Because who wants to go home with nothing and being bitter? But sadly many gay guys i know ARE lonely deep inside. They're hollow like a tree trunk. I think that sentence explains exactly why.

. Bitterness arises when you find you are too old, too sick, too lazy, too habituated, too comfortable to do something about it and people/peers around continue to grow and gain further success.

So that's why people become bitter. And i know a lot of people heading towards that direction.

Well something can be done.What? Curb your self indulgence now and do work that benefits others. Focusing on yourself all these years got you nowhere except false perceptions of having had fun and done something.. If fun was ‘it’, then you should be very successful and happy now.

The formula to avoid bitterness is to use your time wisely and not for only self indulgence. Self indulgence leads to eventual bitterness. Check it out.

But well there's hope on getting rid of loneliness. Sounds like the only way tho.

Just thought i'd share with people who read this blog that they need not feel lonely as well.

I really hope this helps.