Lets start the cockfight. This is gonna be fun!
dancerboy thinks its because feelings may arise.
But then again if sex is just sex, its just like an activity like playing badminton together, where is the problem?
Because most guys equate sex with exploiting whomever they're fucking, and its because of this that it makes things awkward when its done. You treated your friend like a dirty little whore during sex and took advantage of his body. You exploited your friend....you sullied his body and innocence. And you can never see him the same again after he took in your cock with such a horny and dirty way. You'll keep thinking of him giving you on oral even though you guys are eating at the mamak stall and talking about life. You'll keep thinking about moles in certain parts of his bodies. And worse of all, that he has seen how short and deformed your dick is and he has that part of you with him. But he's just a friend. A friend who treats you like a friend but you treated him like a sex doll. A dirty whore. A cheap prostitute. How are you ever gonna see him like you used to?
But really, does it really have to be that way? As long as you and friend A have understanding that this is just another activity you guys have with each other, where's the awkwardness? Its just like seeing your friend trip and fall during a badminton, or saw the funny shaped mole on his body while swimming together.
If two friends have a need and they gotta get it solved, i dont see why sex should make things uncomfortable. Provided if there is total understanding of what happened and that both parties know that the intimacy during sex is for the act itself and not acted out based on love or emotions. Also, sex does not necessarily involve anal sex which is more intimate and intense, but can be just giving handjobs to each other... Needs are still needs at the end of the day.
As for me now, even though i can understand why but i still sex with friends is a viable, if not, the last option. I've retired from ONS and i plan to keep it that way, and would only want to do it with a dedicated person....
I am fine even I have not done it before. Not sure how weird will it be?
RépondreSupprimeromg... it'd be damn weird =x
RépondreSupprimereven if 2 friends say it won't be awkward after, but still it will.
RépondreSupprimerBecause sex is more than just an act in itself.
If you have sex with a friend without emotion involved, how is it different from sex buddy? The only difference is that friends still meet up with you more often while a sex buddy only meet up with you for sex.
RépondreSupprimerMost people won't do it with friends because to them, sex is something intimate and private where they want to share it with someone they love and have crush on. That is why people feel weird and abnormal if they do it with friends.
I don't think it's about exploiting a friend's body for lust. Humans have sex when they're horny or aroused, how easy can you be aroused by your friend whom you have know for so long? You meet him almost everyday. Do people get horny by looking at their friends till they want to have sex with their friends?
That is why when you meet someone from the internet, if you guys don't end up in bed means you two will stay as friends status.
I think it's about feeling weird. I don't have sexual interest towards them which is why they remain as friends. I think there are just some lines that you don't cross as a friend and sex is one of them.
RépondreSupprimerI want to keep them around for long...and sometimes sex just gets in the way.
sky: im fine too but you might not be able to handle..
RépondreSupprimercalvin: because sex is mechanical. If a friend exposes himself naked and starts playing with you, obviously you're gonna get aroused as well...whether or not you like it but it would go against your feelings towards him.
however, i dont feel thats the problem, its more like what are our attitudes towards sex. Because if having sex with friends is ackward, what about those random men that we have sex with? what are those? free gigolos?
thompson: lol yep i can get that but for me i can still be friends with someone after ive sucked his dick :p
HAHAHAHA! I should have a get you to be my friend so we can sex whenever we want and go for mamak after that! HHAHAHA!!
RépondreSupprimerI didn't have sex with friends so far..maybe i should try it someday~! HAHAHA!
Well written by the way!